Showing posts with label BFL. Show all posts
Showing posts with label BFL. Show all posts

Wednesday, January 22, 2014

If You Give a Girl a Bigger Purse...

...she will find a way to fill it to the brim.
She'll drop in her wallet, then notebook, and pens.
Then in go a gazillion or so lip balms and stains.
She'll tuck in her half eaten Cadbury Perk,
for comfort after a row with a bona fide jerk.
Sunglasses, a hairbrush, make-up bag, and change
are all, of course, essential things.
Don't forget your glass-bottled perfume and LOTR ring,
for without them how can you prove your true being?
Chewing gum wrappers, receipts, and hair pins 
are all lost in the depths of a glamorous lady's faux Birkin.


-an original poem
by Ekta from theotherekta

* takes bow * 

Thank you for reading bearing that. I'm NOT a poet, and boy, do I know it. Seriously, sorry, though. 

Come on ladies. Who hasn't fallen victim to this? We buy bags and proceed to stuff them with everything we think should go around the world with us. I recently bought a new handbag. And it's huge. Which is very typical of me, but really I shouldn't have. Especially because I had a choice in the exact same style for a more sane size and price. Never mind that now. What matters is that I like my bag and she looks like she can do her job well. 

Dark Raspberry Handbag 

I meant to hit the sales and look for an Esbeda (more my type and quirky) or Baggit (cliché and not my first choice), but had no time. So, instead, I had to settle for a bag I bought in a shop called "Rachana" in Vile Parle (East). (The "A's" are stylized as triangles à la my current fave band Bastille...it was meant to be.) The brand is called Dzine and I'm really hoping this bag lasts.

It has a simple design with three deep compartments and one outer pocket. The basic structure is a large wide-based central compartment sandwiched between two no-base pockets. I picked up the dark raspberry shade, but it's also available in navy blue, mustard yellow, hunter green, and black. After I brought it home I realized the handles are too long, I've never seen this sort of proportion, but I guess I'll have to give it a whirl.   

Anywho, I thought I'd use this opportunity (of buying a new bag), to discuss my habit of hauling around a dead load of things on my already burdened shoulders. Besides being terrible for our backs and shoulders, big bags are cumbersome in busy cities. People hate women who charge in and out of public transport towing large handbags. Do you do this? I totes get it. I am making a conscious effort to minimize the items in my purse. If you do carry a heavy purse, try to switch shoulders...to balance the pain. 

The only justification I can come up with for a large purse is that it can be used for self-defense against aforementioned jerks. 

Let me know if you would be interested in a "What's in my Bag" sort of blog post. I could do one after trialing my new bag for a few weeks.

Owner of a brand new bag,
-Ekta

  

Monday, January 20, 2014

LIEBSTER AWARD!


Back story:

I've tried to maintain blogs several times before. Yet, this is the first time I've been nominated for the Liebster Award! All thanks to Furnaz of Beauty Classyfied (check out her very cool blog here, I still can't get over how clever the blog name is).

Let's run through the basics:


What's a Liebster Award?

I think of the Liebster Award as an encouragement award for newbie bloggers. Getting one helps us not only to write (which is already our passion), but try to make new friends. Some people forget that a blog is an account of personal views that we have decided to make public. They get lost in the crowd, and what's worse, compare themselves to "famous or successful" bloggers. Remember, they were newbies too at one point. They too had less than 200 followers and worked hard (if you want to call this work).

Anywho, this award is sort of like a chain mail with a good cause. Each nominee tags 11 other newbie bloggers, and this keeps snowballing, resulting in a gigantic, fluffy snowball of bright-eyed writers who keep our community warm and fun. 


What else do you have to do?

The Liebster Award is also a tag, wherein the nominee answers the 11 questions asked by their Liebster fairy. But there's a catch. Every link in the chain has to create new questions for their fave newbie bloggers.

My answers to Furnaz's questions:

*Disclaimer* Favorite questions are so easy to ask, yet so hard to answer. So, imma just go with my gut and put down what feels right, now.
  1. If all your makeup was taken away but you could keep 3 things, what would they be?
    Kajal/Kohl, a tinted loose powder (Mumbai humidity, yo), Lip Balm. Bam.
  2. Favourite fashion item…
    A good ol' pair of great fitting, worn-in jeans.
  3. Favourite blusher…
    Not really a blusher girl, tbh... I hope I find something, someday, though.
  4. Favourite movie…
    My default answer to the question is Juno. But I love too many movies.
  5. What/who inspired you to blog?
    I simply love writing. I always have. I studied science. (I hold an MSc in Microbiology, yikes, but I work as a writer.) This blog is my babble-board. It allows me to write what I want, when I want, without constrains. :)
    Also, I do love FleurdeForce and Zoella, who both happen to be vloggers now.
  6. Leather jacket or fur jacket?
    Leather, hands down.
  7. Tell us one makeup tip that changed your life.
    Follow the line from the outer corner of your eye for the perfect winged-liner.
  8. Best advice you ever received from someone… (Does not have to be beauty related!)
    "It does not do to dwell on dreams and forget to live, remember that." What? Dumbledore totally counts.
  9. What is your favourite era in terms of beauty or fashion…you know like  50’s 60’s etc.
    Ugh. This question is so hard! I had to refer to my trusty Vogue book make-up by Juliet Cohen to answer this. 50's is my final answer.
  10. What is your staple party look- from beauty to fashion?
    Beauty: Dark smokey eyes. Tons of mascara. Red lip.

    Fashion: LBD. Black heels.
  11. If there was one thing you could buy (money being no object) what would it be?
    I'm guessing this is a BFL-related question. A gorgeous pair of custom-made, black patent leather Christian Louboutin heels. *drools* 

I nominate these bloggers for the Liebster Award:

Kayla Marie: Kay & a cup of tea
Ellie: Elephant stories and more
Aurélie: Aurélie
Travelling Cat
I also tag you! If you want, go ahead and answer these questions on your blog. Make sure to leave a link. And if you don't have a blog, leave your answers in the comments.

And my questions for you darlings:

  1. Who or what inspired you to write and share a part of your world online?
  2. You have time/patience for 1 make-up product. You grab...?
  3. Favorite genre of books?
  4. Are you an introvert or extrovert?
  5. Favorite book or book series?
  6. How much water do you drink everyday? Honestly.
  7. Best gift you ever gave...
  8. What or who makes you instantly happy?
  9. Current style icon?
  10. On a scale from "Allergic" to "Rehab", how much do you love Nutella?
  11. What is the meaning of life? (Sorry, I'm an overthinker, perpetually stuck in an existential crisis.)
    If you rather not answer this, then just tell me your favorite 90's fad.  
This was oodles of fun. Merci beaucoup. 
-Ekta


PS: For those who are following my "Weekly Projects" series, I refuse to fail after just the first week. I am working on a piece, but it's not quite done yet. Spoilers: Music-ish + ink. Make of that what you will. I will post it some time before next weekend.


Sunday, January 19, 2014

Beauty, Fashion, Lifestyle (BFL): Trends, Tips, and Reviews

BFL, is my acronym for Beauty, Fashion, Lifestyle. Insert a few letters, and it reminds me of the word "baffle" or rather "baffled"; a feeling that I'm sure many of us have experienced in the beauty aisles of stores or rolling pages of online shops.

I am here to offer opinions and advice on how to become less baffled by all the choices out there. I'm no expert, but over the years, I've accumulated a bit of knowledge about home-remedies that work and save you money that could otherwise be spent on new goodies. I also have studied Chemistry for more than a couple of years and understand a bit of the gibberish at the backs of our beloved products' containers.

With regards to covering the entire spectrum of beauty, fashion, and lifestyle, I thought the best way is to make bite-size posts titled either "Trends", Tips", or "Reviews". I think this classification is pretty self-explanatory. I love cooking, so I might throw in "Recipes". But you guys already know that the genre of my blog is "Varied and Miscellaneous" if you're being generous, and "Confused-Girl-On-Internet" if you're being realistic. Easy-to-read bite-size nibblets though is what I promise!  

Before I start full-fledged posts on BFL related things, I thought I'd let you know a thing or two about what to expect.
  1. I live in Mumbai (or Bombay), which is on the West coast of the tropical subcontinent of India. I've lived here for a long time (but definitely not my whole life). Any Bombay girl will tell you the weather is her biggest battle at keeping classy and presentable. The weather, pollution, and crowds, that is.
  2. Since I live in Mumbai, most Western "drugstore or low-end" products are quite pricey, but not entirely unaffordable. This just means I have to think twice before buying anything 'coz if the product doesn't suit me or I don't like it for whatever reason, it will leave a dent in my wallet and I won't be able to replace the product till my next paycheck (if I'm lucky)! High-end products are things of dreams. One day I will splurge and spoil myself with something high-end, but, alas, not today.
  3. I grew up in Nashville, USA. That makes me and Indian-American-Indian, or something like that.
  4. I will only write reviews on things I have ACTUALLY used or tried. I'll try to keep these reviews as universal as possible, but sometimes they may be more useful for people who are living/shopping in India. If you plan on visiting India, this would be a great time to follow my blog!
  5. Feel free to ask me questions, I'll answer them to the best of my abilities.
Fun Fact: I'm terrible at selfies. Proof:

theotherekta | Les Selfies

So who's excited for more heartfelt blog posts on beauty, fashion, life, health, and all that jazz? I know I am!

-Ekta 
 xoxo